so this past sunday marked the 3 year anniversary date of my father's passing. sunday morning i woke up early. k must've heard me wake up because she walked to the kitchen all groggy eyed. she asked what we were doing for the day. i said we're going to church and then we're going to see ah-dya. k replied, 'he's alive again?' she looked really excited. it was so cute and sad at the same time. i miss him for me. i miss our father-son breakfasts where he would shake his head at how poorly we manage our money. but i think more than i miss him for me, i miss him for my mom, sister and the kids (j,b,i,k). 
look at my mom in this picture. she is so happy. she is dancing with her hubby. genuine elation on her face. look at my pops' face. i know that face. he's counting the steps in his head for the style of ballroom music being played. he is also thinking he is a great dancer. hehehe. 
here's b, my pops and i at claim jumper. this was for my birthday. the last one i would ever celebrate with my pops. time sure is short. we need to make the most of our time with our loved ones. we never know when we're going to die. well, actually now with the modern marvel known as the internet (deathclock.com), i'm scheduled to die...  | Your Personal Day of Death is... |  | |
ok...that was morbid. i hope this date isn't accurate because that would mean i don't get to walk k down the aisle at her wedding. back to my pops...we went to his site on sunday and left him a small pot of baby roses. the kids ran off without us when we pulled up and they ran right to this statue of david close to where my dad is buried. then they turn around and run to us giggling and laughing saying, 'he's naked!' at my dad's nameplate, we bowed 3 times (not for buddhist tradition...but for respect). i remember when we would visit my dad's dad's site, we all bowed in honor of him. anyway, miss ya pops. thanks for all the sacrifices and love you showed me and our family. (-_-) |